What psychic predictions won’t give you— And what leads to peace of mind instead

“Is this person the one?” 
“Will I get married in the coming year?” 
“How much will my business make at the end of the month?” 

These are just some of the many questions that I get asked as an intuitive channel. 

And every time I hear, a part of me doesn’t want to give the answers deep down. 

And that’s not because I can’t answer. I DO receive what will happen. Spirit does show me what is most likely to happen and I would receive clear clairvoyant messages around the future. 

And I’ve given predictions that turned out to be true for people. From the birth of a child to the appearance of a lover, to location that a person would move to. However, even though I know I can relay the messages about the future, it doesn’t feel good in my system. 

I didn’t understand why at first. I thought I was just supposed to give people what they wanted. To answer what they asked.

But the deeper I’ve dropped into my own lived experience of unconditional peace,

the more I’ve realized:

psychic predictions about the future don’t actually solve the root problem. 

Neither does any other divination tool, whether that is tarot, oracle, or pendulum does. 

It’s not that I don’t believe in them. We live in an interconnected reality where a deeper intelligence, call it Universe or Spirit speaks to us, through modalities like channeling and tarot. 
 

However, when it comes to predictions about the future, the psychic readings can be used as a way to “escape” from the deeper root of why you feel the way you feel. In other words, it’s only a bandaid, but it ignores the actual healing that is needed to take place. 

The first problem being–  it still doesn’t deal with WHY the questioner is trying to find out about the the future in the very first place. 

I see that whenever a client or someone I know would ask me questions like “What will happen in xyz time” or “Will x or y happen to me?”

On the surface, it will just seem like you’re just curious. But more often than not, deep inside, I see a little girl deep down who is worried, trying to figure out the “right” way to do things. 

Underneath the spiritual facade of wanting to know the future, she feels restless, anxious, nervous. 

Like fumbling for keys to the future.

Like walking on a thin ice layer. 

She is afraid that if she makes the “wrong” move, she wouldn’t receive what she wants. 

She is anticipating for the future, hoping that if the circumstances *just* turn out right, she wouldn’t have to face this lump inside her throat anymore. 

This nagging hole inside her chest tells that she is not loved.

This burning sensation of her lungs saying that UNTIL she gets married, gets the promotion, hit the success, *insert outcome she wants* she’s not enough. 

Which by the way, are all lies that the ego mind tells us. Because the real truth is, you are always loved, alwaysenough, always perfect, no matter what your circumstances are, no matter what you are going through in the heart of God. 

But when you are trying to “find out” about the future, this little girl who is feeling unloved, abandoned, and unsafe, is NOT feeling seen. She is not being held, she is not being looked at. 

Instead, we are fueling more of her pain by trying to “figure out” the future.

It’s like when a parent wouldn’t hear when a child is crying, and instead would just shove substitutes (like a movie or a toy) hoping that the child would shut up. (Note: when we are trying to bypass our emotions by trying to “figure out” the future, that is essentially what we are doing!)

We are feeding ourselves more of the illusion that unless we “get” to a certain place in the future, we aren’t held, loved, enough, and safe yet. Yup, again it’s like saying to a child (your inner child) that until she gets the things that a parent wants, she is not loved, safe, enough yet.  

And even if we mentally “know” that we’ll be alright (because a psychic prediction tells you so), it is only surface level okay-ness. It will not feel like eternal safety, eternal love, eternal peace. Because deep down, there is still a child inside of us who is still anxious, who still cannot trust the future, God, reality. 

And this is what the psychic readings about the future won’t tell you. They won’t tell you that regardless of what the future is, that you are still loved, safe, and enough. They won’t tell you that no matter what happens, you don’t have to “figure out” things because God’s got your back. 

Of course aside from an unethical side issue on how the psychics are using the primal-based fear of the future as a form of marketing, my point is to say that: 

More than the circumstances that can happen to you, what’s more important is how you feel in this present moment. 

The more you choose peace in this moment, the more life will reflect back more of the situations that bring you peace. 

Alternatively, the more you choose worries in this moment, the more life will reflect back to you situations to worry about. 

Anything other than how you choose to feel this present moment is just a distraction keeping you away from the wonderful life you truly came here to live.
And when you take care of that, life will always take care of your circumstances.
 

Much love, 
Chan Myae