The illusion that peace is afar: The first step to experiencing Heaven right where you are

If you tap into how inner peace looks like, what do you see in your mind, my love? 

Maybe to you, it looks like laying on a hammock while sipping coconut juice in Bali,
Or finally making a bunch of money and being able to not “work” for the rest of your life, 
Or finally getting married and having children and dogs. 

Regardless of what inner peace looks like, you will see that they all have one thing in common… 

That is, the awareness that problems don’t exist. Or at least they are solved.

That all is well. Life is well.
It’s like your problems are all gone– whether that is your relationship problems, or career problems, or business problems. It’s like they are solved, done for good.  

This is the inner state that we all long for (well, at least I hope you do because you’re on my loveletter list:) ). 

Yet, for many of us, we think that we can’t experience this state of all-abiding peaceyet.

We think that it’s far away on a future timeline or that we can’t have it until we have manifested all the things on our vision board– e.g. manifest a dream marriage, a dream car, a dream lifestyle etc. And have all things “sorted out.” 

But what if I tell you that you can actually experience that state of having “arrived” right Now?
What if I tell you that you can experience the state of perfect bliss and serenity right Now?
And that you don’t have to wait for the dream timeline anymore.

You see, whenever I say this and introduce this concept to women who come into my work, it sounds “too good to be true” at first.

And it’s totally normal because for so long, we’ve been conditioned to believe that inner peace can’t exist, at least not at this moment yet. We’ve been led to believe that it’s only in a dream vacation, or a honeymoon, or after making millions. I too so thought that in the past. 

But the more and more I step into the truth of my soul, the more I see that inner peace being “far away” is a false illusion that has been sold to us.

We are constantly bombarded with a messages like on social media that make us feel like the “perfect life” is somewhere else that other people have but is not available to us.  

This keeps us in a perpetual loop of suffering– chasing, striving, grasping for something outside of us that we think will make us happy. 

Yet still being unhappy (and unfulfilled) because we still think we are “missing” something… which makes us continue on the chase of striving yet never arriving. 

And for society, us striving (and not being at peace) DOES serve a purpose. Because think of it this way– if we are actually told the TRUTH that perfect peace exists inside of us and not outside of us, the whole ego’s capitalism scheme would crumble.

Because if we realize that perfect peace exists inside of us, we wouldn’t be clinging to things that don’t serve us anymore. 

We wouldn’t be buying things that we don’t actually need anymore.
We wouldn’t be hooked onto addictions that only temporarily satisfy us anymore.
We wouldn’t get into toxic relationships that don’t fulfill us anymore. 

Instead we would realize the truth of who we are and fulfill life’s grander purpose.

We would experience heaven-on-earth on this present Now moment, spread it to the world, and live in it for eternity. And instead of being stressed out about life, imagine how much more loving, radiant, creative, and impactful you would be. 

And That power is available inside of you, my love.

The ability to experience peace at any time, any moment you desire.

– not even because you learned this skill elsewhere, but because Peace is who you ARE.

Just as all other things we desire– whether that is love, joy, or abundance– peace is your true nature.

It’s part of the Divine (the Source energy) that created us and lives in us. It’s the treasure that we all have been seeking yet didn’t realize that it’s right here, always been with us. 

And if you want to experience That state of perfect peace right now, keep on reading because here today, I’ll be sharing one of the biggest findings I’ve seen from my own journey to experiencing unconditional inner peace. And what I’ve learned from helping my clients experience a life that fills us up too.

You already have it all

Whenever we are not in a state of peace, a common theme that you may find yourself in is that it feels like you don’t have the “thing” you are looking for.  

Whether that is the love you want to receive from a partner.
Or the safety that you want to receive from money/career.
Or the validation you are wanting from other people.

Whenever we are not in a state of peace, it feels like we have to cling onto things outside of us (e.g. a relationship, money, attachments) because otherwise, we would fall apart.
It feels like we’re walking on a tightrope trying to find the “right” way of doing things so we can be safe, be loved, and be secure.

And that my love, is the initial root of where our inner suffering comes from.
It comes from the belief that we are lacking what it is that we are looking for. 
It comes from the belief that we are “small” and our sense of peace is at the mercy of people/things outside of us.

Yet, regardless of how hard we try to force things and do things the “right” way, there will always be a part of us that is scared of the circumstances outside of us. 

Like for instance, you may finally get into a dream marriage but if you think that your partner is the source of love, NO MATTER how good he treats you, there will always be a part of you that’s afraid of him changing, acting cold, and out of the blue, leaving you.

Similarly, you may finally make millions of dollars but if you think that money is the source of safety, NO MATTER how much you earn, there will always be a part of you that’s afraid of slowing down and being able to trust what you do. 

This is the reason why if you want true inner peace (not the kind that is fleeting and is contingent on your life circumstances, but the kind that always stays with you), it’s important to experience the Source of what you’re looking for INSIDE of you.
Because only that can ever-lasting, ever-eternal, ever-safe. And it totally makes sense because the Divine is IN us– not outside of us. 

The only reason why one cannot have peace is because we are not giving to the part of us that wants to receive what we desire. It’s because we are avoiding or haven’t been aware of the part that contains That which we are looking for. 

Like for instance, you may want love from a partner through him acting in a more caring manner.
But if there is a part of you that doesn’t want to care for the little girl in you, it will feel like the relationship is one-sided and unstable. 

The same way, you may want to feel more invited and belonging in your friend group.
But if there is a part of you that keeps rejecting the little girl in you, it will feel like you have to be on a constant watch out for how other people see and judge you. 

All of that is to say, the reality that you are living in, actually lies WITHIN you. Yup, the Universe is WITHIN you.

From the way you feel in your relationships, to the way you feel about money, job etc. changing your experiences simply lies in shifting the way you see about YOU.

When you see that you have everything and that you are lacking nothing, peace can’t help but arise.

And in this state of peace is where all that you desire comes to life– not because you’re trying, but simply because the outer world is a direct mirror reflection of your inner life. 

Which is why in the healing sessions I work with my clients (you can book an intro session for free here), one of the things we do is to awaken dormant parts of you that you have never experienced before. 

This is why, in the healing sessions I offer (you can book a free intro session here), one of the most profound things we do is awaken dormant parts of you—parts you may have never fully experienced before.

Such as, parts of you that you see as flawed, but in truth, hold the key to seeing the Divine within yourself.
Parts of you that carried the weight of “failure,” yet within them lies the very freedom and fulfillment you’ve been searching for.

Everything you’ve struggled to accept about yourself is not a barrier to what you long for—it is the doorway to it. The love, safety, and abundance you seek have never been outside of you. They have been waiting within, in the very places you’ve been conditioned to overlook or reject.

Inside of you, we meet the Self who holds it all—She is the vastness of a Universe waiting to come alive. And as these hidden aspects are reclaimed, something extraordinary happens: the problems that once felt so real begin to dissolve effortlessly. The world itself glimmers with forth, revealing a reality where peace is not something to chase—it is something you are.

And from this state of deep inner fulfillment, life naturally transforms to reflect what’s within you. Not even because you are striving to “get” or “manifest” anything, but because as within, so without—this is the law of the Universe.

Much love,
Chan Myae